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 Loving someone or being loved Hi readers, I hope you like my writing This time I will discuss about loving or being loved? a heart that is filled with someone else's love or your love that is filling someone else's heart. Which one is better between the two options? I'm also confused about which one to choose because if we can choose both, it's better. Actually, Humans have the most beautiful gift, one of which is Love. In the story of human life will not be separated from the beauty of love. In a relationship between two people, there must be someone who loves and someone who is loved. Sometimes what we feel will really feel the difference between loving and being loved. To love is our own will. Loving makes someone do anything for the person they love to feel happy. Loving makes us passionate in life, we will fight to get the people we love. However, if loving is done to dominate, it will be easy to be disappointed when what is loved is not always according to our wi...

 Ambivert personality What is an ambivert? maybe some people feel unfamiliar with the term and maybe only some people know the term. Ambiverts are people who have personalities between extroverts and introverts. How can that be? Yes, someone must have felt that sometimes they are introverts and sometimes extroverts. An ambivert will adjust their personality to the environment around them. If you are in a good mood or with the closest people, then someone with this personality tends to open up and become an extrovert. However, when they are tired, in a bad mood, or in a toxic environment, they will tend to be more reserved, becoming an introvert. Although ambiverts also like socializing with crowds, they also need time to recharge themselves with their me-time activities. They also need time to make friends with their solitude, by listening to music, reading books, or watching their favorite movie series. And the most favorite place when introverted personalities show up in their ow...

  DON'T EXPECT HUMANS        Words don't expect too much, they can be used as reassurance as well as a reminder when you are putting your hopes on someone. Sometimes, expectations that are not in line with expectations will make a person feel disappointed and sad. Because, this will actually risk more disappointment if everything you want doesn't match. A person's heart and words are easy to change. I once told someone about a problem I was having. It turns out that the response we get is not what we want. Of course, feelings of sadness and disappointment will arise. But yes, it can't be helped, it's all out of our control. Actually hope it's okay, but we have to turn off our hopes to whom we place. From now on learn not to expect anything from anyone, except Allah. So, don't expect too much, let Allah take care of our lives.

                                                  Stop Saying That Beauty Has to be White       For most Indonesian women, the standard of beauty is that of having white, slim, tall, thin, and smooth skin. Stereotypes are not even foreign and are often heard in everyday life. "Try if you are a little white, surely you will be beautiful"  "Try to go on a diet, there must be a lot of guys who want to be with you"  "Try your skin is not black, surely you already have a boyfriend". These expressions often come from the mouths of other people. Frankly, these statements are actually unusual, not unusual at all. These sentences can make them feel uncomfortable with their own bodies. For this reason, it is necessary to have firm boundaries that underline that beauty does not have to be white. Beauty doesn't have to be skinny. Beauty doesn't ...

 Boarding House Life           The life of boarding children is one of the unique and interesting lifestyles. For the general public, the life of boarding children is synonymous with a simple and economical lifestyle. In fact, many say instant noodles are the best friend of boarding children at the end of the month. Indeed, this assumption is not entirely wrong, but not all boarding children are like that. Because there are some boarding children who rarely and do not even consume instant noodles. It can be said that the boarding house life in the past and now is very different, in the past people were living because they were far from home or migrated, if now their house is close, some choose to live in a boarding house. That's because they want to live independently and want to feel what it's like to live without depending on their parents. Living in a boarding house not only trains us to live frugally, but also teaches us how to live a good neighborly li...

                            Positive Vibes As social beings, all humans who live on earth will certainly interact with each other. It is impossible for people to survive alone without outside help. In this interaction, as one of the residents, you really need an environment that can bring a positive aura into your life, which is called a positive aura. A positive environment can inspire a person to do positive things and become more positive. Who you are friends with, will have an effect on your life." In my opinion, sorting out friends in socializing is very important and in line with increasing age, finding friends It's not easy to really fit in. And I really feel how hard it is to find a friend who really agrees with me.

                                    Rain             I like rain. Rain is a gift from God that we should be grateful for. For everyone, rain must bring its own happiness. Sometimes I remember childhood memories when I played under the rain. I played until my mother scolded me, afraid of getting the flu she said. It was true, the next day I caught the flu. But that doesn't scare me into playing in the rain again. There is another pleasure when it rains, which is sleeping and turning on music along with the rain. But when I grew up, I rarely played in the rain, because I knew when it was finished it would hurt. Yes, that's how, our childhood memories can be a story in the future.