Loving someone or being loved

 Loving someone or being loved

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This time I will discuss about loving or being loved? a heart that is filled with someone else's love or your love that is filling someone else's heart. Which one is better between the two options? I'm also confused about which one to choose because if we can choose both, it's better. Actually, Humans have the most beautiful gift, one of which is Love. In the story of human life will not be separated from the beauty of love. In a relationship between two people, there must be someone who loves and someone who is loved. Sometimes what we feel will really feel the difference between loving and being loved. To love is our own will. Loving makes someone do anything for the person they love to feel happy. Loving makes us passionate in life, we will fight to get the people we love. However, if loving is done to dominate, it will be easy to be disappointed when what is loved is not always according to our wishes. Loving is a very good thing but only natural. People who choose to be loved based on experience, they are heartbroken when they love but are not appreciated. Being loved is really good, there are many things we can get, namely being pampered, protected, assisted, looked after, and the like. At least he will try desperately so you don't feel hurt, sad, and feel alone. But we will be selfish if we always want to be loved. In my opinion, in a healthy relationship, there should be a "give and take" between each other, so as to create a reciprocal relationship that fills each other up. So, loving is not always giving and being loved is not always receiving. In essence, there is nothing wrong and nothing right from the above answers. Because love is not a form of conclusion from understanding, but becomes a process in understanding itself.